LONELY LOVE

*LONELY LOVE* 🥹

There are women in relationships who are not lacking money, beauty or even love for their partner yet every night, they cry silently beside the same person they call husband.🥹

Because no matter how they provide, cooks, cleans, takes care of kids and everything, he will constantly cheat, misbehaves and claims it's his right as a man.

Some men will cheat and still come home acting normal, some will embarrass you publicly but expect respect. Some will keep malice for days, deny you affection, ignore your messages, make awful words about your body changes, avoid communication/ responsibilities while making you feel invisible in your own home.

And the saddest part?

Many women stay because they keep hoping the man they first met will return.😭

*ANONYMOUS*

Mrs Amaka was married for 8 years, when her husband lost his job, she stood by him, paid school fees, handled feeding, built house and allow him take the glory but slowly, things changed.

He stopped talking to her whenever he was angry, he would keep malice for days, eat outside, ignore her presence, stay on his phone all night and leave the house without explanation. Somebody say Merlin! 🗣️ 

Yet online, he appeared as the perfect husband.

*The Truth:* 

_Some men dish out behaviors they would never survive if the roles were reversed.

_A man can keep malice for days, ignore his wife, come home anytime he likes, cheat repeatedly, withhold affection, domestic violence and still expect peace, loyalty, understanding and respect.

Society sold a lie "A man can cheat on his wife and still love her? What if table turns?..

Same gender that applauded the equatorial guinea man condemned chike.

Many women have normalized emotional punishment because society told them to endure but moving forward we're choosing ourselves. ❤️ 

Silence, pride, cheating, emotional withdrawal, and public humiliation are not signs of masculinity.

*LESSONS* 

1: Silent treatment is not maturity but emotional punishment.

2: A relationship cannot survive without communication.

3: Some women are carrying marriages alone emotionally, financially, mentally and spiritually: love should make you feel wanted.

4: Never ignore repeated disrespect because you are hoping someone will change.

5: This generation is different, let's do our best in raising our sons better.

Dear Queen,

You deserve softness, communication, peace, reassurance, You deserve a partner who does not make love feel like survival.

At GetFitNG, just know that we love you so much. 🫂❤️