DREAMS SHOULD NOT END AFTER MARRIAGE
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*SHOULD DREAMS END AFTER MARRIAGE?* 🥹
Some women hear “My love, you don’t need to work, Stay home and take care of the children. I will provide everything you need and because it sounds like love and care, they believe it.
But not every promise to provide is genuine. Some men will ask their wives to quit their jobs, abandon school, forget their skills and put their dreams on hold. “You can always do it later, I’ll open a business for you, There’s no need for you to stress yourself.”
Then later never comes.
*Anonymous*
“My husband asked me to leave my clothing business after we got married. He promised to open a provision shop for me near the house and said I should focus on our children. I trusted him, years passed, the shop never came. Anytime I mentioned work or school, there was another excuse. 😢
By the time I realized what had happened, I had no savings, no certificate, no skill I could rely on and no financial independence. I felt trapped. 💔
*WARNING SIGNS:*
*1 Empty Promises:* He will promise to open a provision store around the house for you, but it may never happen. And if it does, daily feeding may be expected and when it fails, you'll be blamed for mismanagement.
_Little misunderstanding may also result to him locking the shop to open at his own will. 😔
*2 Putting Your Goals on Hold:* He will tell you to focus on having babies first with claims of supporting your career later.
*3 Complete Financial Control:* After years of staying home, you become fully dependent on him for money, which can lead to ill treatment and disrespect.
*4 Disguised as Care:* At first, it looks like love and care, making it seem like they just want to protect you from stress while raising kids.
*5 Trapped in the Relationship:* Without your own money and with children to care for, it becomes very hard to leave if the relationship turns toxic.
Ladies, never allow anyone to convince you that your dreams are unnecessary just because you are married. A good husband can support you, provide for you and still encourage you to grow.
If you choose to stay home by mutual agreement, make sure you are still learning, developing yourself and have some form of financial security.
*We love you @all*❤️
