BEFORE YOU BREAK "THE POWER OF RESET"
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*BEFORE YOU BREAK "THE POWER OF RESET"* 🫂
The alarm rings at 4:30 a.m, she wakes up tired because she didn’t really sleep and her mind never really rested. By 7 a.m, she is already on her way to work. Traffic, emails, deadlines, meetings. She works hard, but deep down she knows something; The salary alone will never be enough.😭
So after work, she opens her phone again, responding to customers, Posting her small business, looking for suppliers for her new business idea, learning new skills online.
Because in Nigeria, they say: *“Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.”* but most of the times it feels like she’s carrying too many baskets at once and none can be helped. 💔
Arike works in an office, her little salary pays part of the bills and not everything. So she started a small side business. Some days she sells, Some days nobody buys.
Then life adds more weight: 😥
_Her younger brother needs school fees.
_Her mother calls complaining she doesn't send enough money
_Landlord reminds of rent
_Emergency expenses shows up.
At night, she sits quietly and thoughts ran through her mind. “How am I supposed to carry all this?” This isn't because she is lazy or weak but because life can really get hard and everything feels heavy.🥹
*What a RESET Means*
A reset does not mean your problems will disappear. It means giving yourself space to breathe.
It could be:
1: Stepping away from pressure for a moment
2: Resting your mind
3: Reorganizing your priorities
4: Eating what you love or gifting yourself. (Not just hustle and pay bills, please enjoy your money) 😩
5: Remembering why you started in the first place.
*LESSONS*
You are human, feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean failure. Small steps matters.
_A ten-minute pause, a healthy meal or one achievable task to divert your attention can restore energy. e.g exercise, music, dance or movies.
_Control what you can, Let go of what can't. Try not to dwell in past mistakes or loss, learn and move on.
_Let go of what drains you; guilt, comparison, unrealistic expectations.
Your life, your pace. No one else sets the speed of your journey. Rest is essential, taking time to reset isn’t selfish, it’s survival.
A reset helps you return stronger, clearer and calmer.
You cannot pour from an empty cup, carry the world or function properly if your mind and body are exhausted.
What you need is not another hustle or another responsibility. You simply need a RESET QUEEN! 💆
To every woman working, hustling, supporting families, building dreams, schooling or running a business? Feeling tired doesn't mean you are failing, It simply means you are HUMAN and sometimes the strongest thing a woman can do is PAUSE BREATHE & RESET.
*We love you ❤️*